An Open Letter to all the Parents out there – New Parents!
An letter to all the mothers and fathers out there, who like every person want time to slow down because their kids are growing up too fast.Sometime we don’t understand how to comfort them and sometimes it’s just a bad day or a bad week or a bad month may be.
Time Spend With Children
Some days our exhaustion breaks all of our patience we have and the other days we can’t just take the noise and mess all around. Many times we don’t understand how to make them understand what’s right and what’s not right for them!
Sometimes we start doubting our own capabilities and we feel whatever we are doing is not just right or good enough for our kids. Other times we may feel that we are wasting away these precious moments and sometimes we feel that parenting days would be over even before we can figure out what happened. But the truth is that happiness lies in small and minute things. I don’t mean to say that hardships aren’t hard enough, but I am sure that once these kids are grown up and we look back.. we would just remember all their happy and amazing moments and these hardships and these insecurities won’t be even around anywhere.
Isn’t it true that our entire world just curls up when our kid is laughing his heart out In front of us. At such moments we feel whatsoever we are doing or whatsoever hardships we are going through, this laughter is what feels we are home. Then there are days when your kids are too good to you and you can’t stop staring at them and think “why am i in so much love with this little being? All you need is a comfort hug from your kid!
All the firsts or all the milestones of our kids that we cherish and preserve in our cameras or phones are the only memories that we can show them. Sometimes all that we need is to see in the eyes of these little ones and see that trust that they have in us (parents) that we are the best for them.
Moments With Kids
These are the moments where we just wish to hold and hug our kids and whisper in their ears “stop growing up so fast my baby!”
Always remember that today they are the youngest and they will keep growing every minute and every day and with that, they will keep amazing you and that every single stage of their growing up has wonderful aspects to it. We should always keep talking to them which would build a strong bond and. Relationship between us and kids.And his face immediately lights us as he listens to them.. he feels that warmth and comfort.
Now did I realise the hardships and the feelings parents face for their children.
Here are 10 promises to my parents , that with me all you parents out there should make:
1) take care of all your needs
2) make you proud with honesty and earned fairness
3) work harder everyday
4) always abide by my principles and remember my roots
5) teach my baby all the values you people taught me
6) do the best for my child
7) set good examples for my child
8) love my child unconditionally
9) embed all the virtues in my child
10) be like you, as my parents promised and did raise me so beautifully
I wish for all of you to receive such letters from your children titled as follows:
- An open letter to parents from daughter or son
- A letter to a single mom from daughter or son
- A letter to a single mother, A letter to my parents
- Open Letter to parents from child
- Golden message to a deadbeat(exhausted) father– thank you for taking care of me
- And single mother hardship letter, so on and so forth.
So here in this open letter to my child from today
I am to write or click every single detail, look forward to the good times coming with a positive attitude! Listen to him a bit more and talk to him for a longer time. Spend some less time over phones or laptop.
One thing we would realise is that good or bad we would always be parents to our kids!