Being a mom as hard it is, chances are you will be a messy mom like myself. There is no such thing called perfect parenting or perfect mom. If some people claim that they are sailing smoothly through this gigantic wave called parenting then are lying and you can call out on their bluff.
So, all things said and done, This is Piyu Ailani, New Mom Blogger and this will be my first blog.
And I wanted this blog to be a chance to get to know each other and build a base for our long-lasting relationship. So, feel free to comment whatever pops into your head and whatever you want to share as a mom with me & this beautiful community we are going to build.
This first blog that you are currently reading is about “the story behind my blog name.”
The name itself is a kind of confession saying I am a Messy Mom & I am not afraid to say it out loud. So, welcome to my and baby Y’s messy life but there is a story behind it and I hope this story gives moms all over the world a relief from the burden where they have to be perfect & tidy all the time.
So, here it goes one of my deepest secrets to an affectionate family life:
It is difficult when it comes to household chores, visiting family functions, taking care of your baby and managing everything at the same time.
A mother is a one-man army but she can’t reach everywhere and do everything and she has to accept that it’s okay if she can’t complete some chores or give up some functions.
And I think that leaving household chores behind is not a big thing.I think it’s better to keep my house messy than my head. - Messy Mom Click To Tweet
I would literally step on legos & toys on my way to the kitchen or bathroom but I choose to keep it that way.
As a mom, I have understood long back that this messiness keeps baby Y’s creativity flowing.
He would write on our walls, break all the toys & then put them back together, he would play with all my lipsticks & kajals & apply them all over his face and I don’t mind a bit.
Also, I am a stay at home mom and that means we get to play and do DIYs and our home is the playground and we use every corner of it unapologetically.Giving space to your kids to be themselves is the best thing you can do. - Messy Mom Click To Tweet
I have this uncanny ability to look at all the clutter in front of me but instead of worrying, I would just enjoy a sip of my tea and unwind. And that is one of the secrets that keep me sane in this motherhood.
You will have the whole life to finish household duties but a limited amount of time with your baby where he is growing up & learning about this world.
Spend time with your kids and just let them be and sit back and let the magic happen.
All these messy walls, corners, kitchen drawers & everything in our house makes it a home. But we as a family live happily and eat the healthiest food possible and that is what matters at the end, right?
So, that’s it.
This is our story.
And I want to be very open about my story and as a mom, I don’t have any problem in accepting that I am not perfect and sometimes I just enjoy my tea even if I have 1000 things to do.
And my advice to all the moms out there is not to stress about small things and even if you end up with messy home but I promise you would have a clearer life, head & soul.
We don’t choose to be messy but we let ourselves be and enjoy to our core without minding the silly things in life.
Go on and just relax. Let your kids enjoy themselves!
Do let us know in the comment section how did you like our story & we love to hear yours!